Bluetooth Service Solicitation in Windows UWP

Question

I am trying to connect to my iPhone and access services such as the battery level and ANCS from windows. I have tried out the Advertisement watcher and query but I feel as though they are really inconsistent. I am just using the code they provided in their updated documentation. I feel as though my results are extremely buggy. Devices show up multiple times and then become unreachable. It's almost as if past devices are never cleared from the cache (this may need to be something I do manually?) upon restarting my UWP in debug x86. I have briefly had success with the advertisement watcher and was even able to initiate pairing. Although when I read the battery level it was still not a number after using the data reader. I noticed that there were some service solicitation properties on the documentation but I could not figure out how to use them. Would these help and if so how could I use them? This might be useful when I try to connect to the ANCS of my iPhone.

Edit 1: After trying out the sample provided by Microsoft, I am still having a similar issue. I am able to see devices and even pair with them but when I click the connect button, it returns that there is a connection failure. In order to advertise to the BLE I am using the LightBlue app on my iPhone to advertise a virtual peripheral with the battery service added. My end goal is to connect to the iPhone directly and access some of its native BLE services and characteristics. I have heard that this can be done with something called service solicitation but have failed to successfully find any real examples of this being put into practice in a UWP (maybe it's not used anymore). I am still pretty new to BLE so I am trying to work out some of my fundamental misunderstandings of how it works so if there is something I am missing please let me know below!

BLE Failing to connect after pairing.

Edit 2: Ok after cleaning and re-building to fix some of my silly mistakes, I can now say that the example project is running as intended from what I can tell. The solution is actually pretty nice and I can see it is much more elegant than my implementation. However, I see that I am running into the same issue as before where the services of my virtual peripheral become undiscoverable after pairing and now result in a "Device Unreachable" exception in scenario 2. It seems as though Windows does not support "Resolvable Random Private Addresses." To elaborate, it does not provide my phone with an Identity Resolving Key (IRK) upon pairing with my iPhone 11 in order to keep track of its address. In order to access certain key characteristics, I need authorization.

Is there any way I can exchange an IRK upon pairing using the custom pairing capability or is there another method to provide authorization in order to access these characteristics on my iPhone? As it is, ANY and ALL GATT services present on the iPhone (virtual peripheral or native OS) become unreachable as soon as I successfully pair with the device. I am hoping it is possible to implement a solution in Windows as if not then communicating meaningful data between modern devices seems impossible with outdated privacy protocols.

I did a little bit of research and it is either the problem above or something to do with my Bluetooth device.

If I were to try to access characteristic without pairing

Edit 3: I have been able to get it to work briefly and it was wonderful. I used the system settings to pair and magically got the prompt on my phone to share notifications. From there, I had authorization/authentication and everything else I wanted to do was a breeze. Unfortunately, this does not seem to be reproducible as I have to randomly pair and unpair while starting and stopping the sample solution to get this prompt. I don't entirely remember what was happening when it popped up, but it does not seem easy to recreate. I thought that pairing would be my solution, but I am now stuck. When I pair with the device, I cannot access any services, but when I am unpaired, I can see all of the services and characteristics I need. However, when trying to subscribe to those characteristics I get "System.Exception: 'The attribute requires authentication before it can be read or written. (Exception from HRESULT: 0x80650005)'." Is there any way for me to request access to the notifications on my iPhone using something in the documentation? I need a reproducible way to request system notification access on my iPhone.